the adventures of pamalicious

being so janky!  I’m all over the place on this thing. I haven’t blogged about anything of substance in awhile - who really is caring about my life inside my house at this point. I gotta get out more or something, but then again - this is life.  sometimes it’s not all parties and social happenings and fabulousness - it’s just what it is, the normalcy of living and breathing.

I’m sitting here listening to the radio via the computer and trying to figure out why I’ve been sitting here and no homework has escaped my fingers, lol 

You know what? Music SUXS these days!  It’s just not giving me what I need.  Yea it gives little thrills and has some eye candy, but my soul is so empty on the musical front. At some point, you want new memories and new music to facilitate those memories.  How many times must we whine about when music was?  Now I’ve taken to listening to the old school rap station - it’s getting critical up in this piece!

My daughters have taught me something about….kindness.  Mini me has been sooo above and beyond since the beginning of this merger with embracing the concept of a ‘little’ sister.  Seeing as BCPC comes from let’s just say stress - the way she’s blossomed by just having someone be kind to her is amazing.  Yesterday she turned 8 and we had a party for her. The first time we’ve been able to celebrate it with her and you know in my house it’s about Birthdays etc.  I decorated overtime including her door so that when she woke up she could feel the spirit since we had to work. She requested a Strawberry cake and I made sure that there were cupcakes to eat during the day so Mini-Me would have to deal with that sugar rush,lol  But this is about her.  Mini-me spent time getting her dressed, painting her nails and toes and giving her sparkly jewelry to wear.  She decked her out in glitter (a big thing around here is glitter, lol) and presented her in a party dress handed down from…her. (I am a firm believer for boys and girls that with our casual society they never get to dress up sometimes not even for easter - so what better day than the day of your birth!)  "Janet" and her family came over and we sat down to eat on the requested birthday meal:  Fried Chicken, Mac and Cheese and Corn, lol  Then it was cake time and Mini-me again stepped up and played Happy Birthday on the Viola.  The look that BCPC gave her was genuine and heartfelt.  We ate cake and ice cream and opened gifts and I got much later a card with a classic line "TANK YOU", lol  HAPPINESS IS….

Speaking of social life. MINE IS SUCKING!!!  I’m barely holding on to any Fabulousness, lol  I’m about to burst - we are doing NO GROWN AND NO SEXY up in this piece!!!  I"m like can a sista get some wings and a drink.  The kids are whining about their summer, but in actuality they are not having a bad summer, they are just not having that  Off da Chain one from last summer, lol .  There are a couple of things coming up where we can get us lawn seats and that’s what I’m gonna do.  Boys II Men and Morris Day, Some Old School Folks and then some Older School Folks.  This way even if we broke we can go in and chill out hear some good music and I can use my cell phone flask, lol lol  There are a couple of events around the bend, but I want to hang out with the Hubby and do our thang! 

And while we’re on it let me discuss my head - Lawd be a piece of weave!!  I have rocked about three ponytails and I’m just OVA IT!! The ponytails concur!  I need my feet sandblasted, I need my eyebrows shaved and I need some acrylic  on my nails, lol lol 

Oh and I been reading you J and I’mma need you BACK IN THE GATE!!! You don burst out and I SEE YOU!! :) 

A  programming note:  Rev Run returns on July 16th MTV

Well we spose to be Free tomorrow - so let me go marinate some meat to exercise my freedom on the grill!