the adventures of pamalicious

 

Party people - get ready to get funky, party people yeaaaaaa so hit me…What’s up?!  First let me say that I actually was so busy on Friday and so brain scattered that I FORGOT to blog.  Yea I really did and by the time I remember I was in the truck on the way home, lol lol  It does concern me that something that I once kept in the forefront actually slipped my mind, but we press on!

I hope your weekend went well.  I’m going to tell you up front that this entry is going to be self serving and on the attention whore scale from 1- 10 at about an 8, so if in just reading this intro you feel your eyes rolling in the back of your head because I get on your nerves with my delusions  (lol) then this might not be the post for you, because I’m getting out of control and this weekend didn’t help that shit at all, lol lol  Self-esteem is at an all time high in this camp. 

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The sun was shining on my face as I stood in the driveway this morning and even though it was a bit nippy outside - I had this feeling of euphoria come over me.  It IS truly special to be alive!  To be a part of this big picture.  To live is cool, but to be ALIVE is something else.  It made me think about what keeps folks wanting to live.  What is it that motivates you to feel the blessing of life and do the best you can to show your appreciate for the gift of life - because it’s not your right and as we know folks challenge it and push the envelope on it all the time.

I’d love to see some of your reasons and they don’t have to be deep, they don’t have to be profound or spiritual in nature - just what triggers you to LIVE!

(in no particular order)

1.  To see my Grand babies

2.  To see what could possibly be the final Mike J & his brothers concert

3.  To see mini-me go to the prom

4.  To see my mom’s face when she see’s her first Great Grand Child

5.  To be a part of a mass family healing

6.  To one day see a stomach with no rolls

7.  Muscadine Season

8.  Mothers Day

9.  Week long cruises

10.  Shopping

11.  Plaques on the walls with Educational Degrees

12.  Because they keep making….SHOES!

13.  There might be a Black President (or Vice President) one day

14.  My lottery numbers might hit

15.  Rap Music might get relevant again

16.  Black People might actually have quality TV and be on quality TV

17.  Sindbad’s Old School Concerts might come back

18.  My mom might get the accolades she deserves

19.  I might actually write a book

20.  Bouquets of fresh flowers - so what they die - I LOVE THEM!

21.  Hearing your JAM and it take you to all sorts of wonderful memories

22.  Waking up next to Caun

23.  I have so much more to learn

24.  Because I want to go over and remember my past

25.  Anticipating the greatness that will be Mini-me

 

Hey everybody!  I know I know - it’s Monday and there’s a song in my throat and a skip in my step.  The weather breaking will do that to you.  I hope everyone had a good weekend - I definitely did.  I mean it was good.  I don’t know how we got into the we got activity of some sort every weekend (and it doesn’t always cost). We just like to really enjoy that time off and be out in the street, lol 

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Well it’s payday so I’m stressed out, but I’ll get through it.  I always do.  The sheer notion of working, receiving compensation and then giving it all away is what drives folks to drink on the real.

I hope you all are gearing up for a good weekend.  My alter ego up there has been chillin in the cut, but look for flexing her individuality sooner than later. 

Exactly why is about 10% of my family on Facebook? Why did I forget I even had an account and now it’s my new obsession sigh.

When BCPC wanted to know who is Pamalicious, it was time to create a different account for the kids and one for Caun and I - who knew my machine could even do that.  As much as I know I’m still very much a student.

I never went into detail about Mini-me’s first date.  Basically it was two boys and two girls which equals a double date in my eyes.  After much much discussion and what not - we let her go and Caun chaperoned the movies but we gave them a bit of length on the rope to walk around the mall together.  Life is picking up speed ya’ll it’s picking up speed.

Now I’m getting ready for the 8th grade dance and ‘transition’ ceremony. Double Sigh..

You ever think about the nightlife in folks homes before?  It crossed my mind when Caun and I, because of freaking naps, were up puttering around at 3:30 am.

Thanks to everyone who has wished me congratulations on my completion of undergraduate school.  I hope I can fit in financially Bar Tending school in the near future.  I still wanna go.

Moms ticket is paid for and issued - here she comes Atlanta, but she coming to see us and not ya’ll this time, lol

Court date on the 22nd - mystery house might be the new residence by first of June YAYYYY!

CRUNK AND DISORDERLY is now officially my favorite blog celebrity or otherwise.  Her blessing me with THIS is the reason why I stan for her.  Yea for the sensitive ones - this can be offensive, but for me it’s the funniest stuff I have seen in I know 10 good years.  He has become a part of our family!  Not to mention because of THIS the romance has been renewed in my relationship. Yea I’m stanning for Fresh and placing an offering of weave and select khia pubic hairs at her feet in worship!

Finally - I haven’t had to pull this out in awhile but sometimes shit just jump into existence….

My mom was telling me about a production being put on surrounding her book out in L.A.  - they were wanting her to help talk it up etc. etc.  So they were telling her it would be great to get both authors etc. to promote the play on the radio etc.  PAUSE - my mom didn’t have co-writers of her work.  They told her that the person said they co-wrote her book and would help with promotion and would be at the play for a ‘talk with the author type symposium’  Um who might this person be…..

DRUM ROLL PLEASE:

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HAPPINESS IS…..

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