the adventures of pamalicious

• So Ursher called off the wedding. Hmmmm - that was some good celebrity gossip, lol lol My official statement (lol) is that I think that celebrities who have entered the business as children are emotionally stunted in their development. They rush ahead due to the business and eventually their minds screech to a halt and force them to return to puberty. Usher is doing a classic “I’m a grown man now momma” move. He picked an older woman to decide to make his break and he is using her to ‘prove a point’ you know how your kids finds someone elses momma and decide they are better than you? I would rather see Usher get with a hood rat his own age if he wanted one and then they could fail honestly, if you get what i’m saying. But this old hood rat is nothing but trouble for him. If he wanna give away some money - hell he can give me some, lol I’m an old bat too, lol lol

• Well unlike the other two that really caught my interest and held it, I didn’t really like this one. I guess they could only sponsor five ladies - I wish there would have at least been ten. I also was not feeling the clothes, and what the hell was up with the ‘Fat Feet’ shoes?! The fashion show was mad short. I guess my other thing was that these ladies were not giving me any cutie in the face. I kept feeling like the make up and the hair was just all off. It all seemed rushed. I liked the pagent atmosphere better than this Paris thing. The professional models were fierce though. This brings me to another thing, we might want to really take a moment and start to really define what exactly is Thick/Big Boned, Fat and Fabulous and Obese. There’s ALOT of confusion about these and to be honest a couple of those women were just obese and their walk and movements etc. just defined that. I’mma need folks to tighten it up. I also want her to address with each woman if there are any health problems, if they are exercising etc. That way it will round it out and not just be about ‘they are fat and folks don’t accept that and neither do they’. Now the special afterwards where she went to the prison was interesting. That sista that’s in there for 185 years to life and went in when she was 16 - did pull at my heart strings. I give it a C+ this go round. I try to keep abreast of most things pop culture and I have to say - that in the big scheme of things, I personally haven’t seen a change persay in the overall mindset about being overweight - unless you count the obsession with those that are too thin. Maybe acknowledging that lends credence to the possibility that there needs to be some kinda medium. I will say that the quality of clothes overall has improved ten fold, but the average consumer is still alienated because alot of women can’t afford those high ass Lane Bryant prices etc. and $50+ dollars for a good bra - get the hell out of here! Not to mention in our communities - the super pluz size hoochie wear is NOT ATTRACTIVE and YOU ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE IN IT. As a fat and fabulous (because personally I don’t have the height to classify as big boned, lol which is a requirement for that title in my book) - I thin you should be giving much face, and even if you wear the same outfits week to week - make it a point to upgrade to fabrics and items that enlongate and compliment YOU and only YOU. As well as, never let them see you sweat. Part of the whole facade is keeping the huffing and puffing to your damn self, lol

Well as you can tell it might be one of those kinda weeks. I had so much swirling around in my head this weekend but was too lazy to come post - so it’s coming OUT this week!