the adventures of pamalicious

Good morning! I hope that those who participated in Fathers Day had a good day yesterday.  Father’s Day is such a difficult time for so many people.  I was quite surprised and happy to see so many out at the mall specifically shopping for Dad.  Especially with it being a black mall.  I had to damn fight to get to the counter to get Caun one of his gifts.   At the card shop, there was all kinds of conversation and alot of it was about the ‘nature’ of the relationship. Overheard, “He ain’t my real daddy?”  “He’s my mom’s husband” “Where are the neutral cards?”  I also heard on the elevator, “He don’t have a daddy; Jesus is his daddy”.

Our Fathers Day was a pendulum swinging from six levels of jealous bullshit from “That Ex” to a day filled with fun and laughter and feeling blessed. We celebrated without one child, lol lol, but Caun had a ball as evidenced by him crashing out at 8:30 when we got home, lol

We started out with the opening of the gifts.  Ya’ll know there are things that I get off on: (1) pictures (2) storytelling and general running my mouth and (3) celebrations.  I had the mantle sign, and the wrapped gifts and his “Worlds Best Dad” shirt all out when he got home.  He was quite happy with the Sean John Body Spray, Washington Redskins Cap (now we only got USC to go and his collection is complete) & the Brown Stacy Adamsms. 

I think it’s hella sexy to buy shoes for your man.  I will be doing it again. 

With the drama of the morning, it was all about getting out and about.  We headed to Discovery Mills (a discount mall) and hit up Jillian’s - a Dave and Busters Knockoff. WE HAD A BALL!  we shot hoops, threw footballs, rode Harleys, kicked Tekken Star ass and shot plenty a gun.  We both came out of there emotionally rejuvenated.  Next up, Knocked Up. Funny ass movie!  Sooo not for kids!  If they merged this with 40 year old virgin, I would probably piss in my pants watching the hybrid.

I also made it out of the braid chair alive.  Thanks for bearing with my randomness this weekend.  I recovered from the shock of being braided with the WRONG texture hair.  (thank God it wasn’t any of those colors the sistas are wearing) and with a little snip of the sissors by Caun it turned out looking quite pretty. Great color for my tan.  I felt/feel super cute and the sexiness quotiant is at 90% why not 100?  Because my wardrobe is suffering!  Dang my shit is looking raggedy. I  need to try to fit in a couple of outfits. 

Anyhoo, this is a week of decisions. is Goddess staying in Texas or is she coming home? Will she be bringing her cousins?  Will Caun and I break our ‘free to be’ record this summer?  Will the Dr. give me the prescription I want?  This should be an interesting week.